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I never thought that one day I would find someone that I could be with…

Someone that i could get weak with…

The feelings that I would feel before were so idealistic…

far from what reality has to offer…

But then, I found him… or he found me …:)

Either way, I’m thankful for he has shown me how to love and be loved…

How to argue and to listen…

How to be weak and be strong…

He has taught me a lot of things…

A lot that I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life without him…

iloveyousomuch!

Voodoo Girl

Her skin is white cloth,

And she’s all sewn apart

And she has many colored pins

Sticking out of her heart

She has many different zombies

Who are deeply in her trance

She even has a zombie

Who was originally from France.

But she knows she has a curse on her

A curse she cannot win.

For if someone gets

Too close to her,

The pin sticks farther in.

-Tim Burton

Sometimes I sit at home

And wondered how it be

If he had love me,truly love me

I’ve learned a while ago that kind of thing never happens for me

And so I go around and just pretend love is not for me

I play the circus clown around my friends

Make them laugh so they won’t see

That you never let them see you this way

Don’t want them to think

The pain runs deep Lord knows its killing me

So I put on my makeup

Put a smile on my face

And if anyone asks me

Everything is ok

I’m laughing cause no one knows the joke is on me

But i’m dying inside with my pride and a smile on my face

On my face singing lalalala

Sometimes I sit at home

By the phone hoping he might call me

But he don’t call me

But then I realized dreams come true

Aren’t for girls like me

Not like me

And so I go around with my head up

Like it ain’t no thing

And when the boys around with all my friends

I’m into other things

Cause you never let them see you this way

Don’t want them to think

The pain runs deep Lord knows its killing me

It’s not an easy thing

It’s hard to face truth

It’s not the life that I would choose

But what else can I do

If he don’t love me

If he don’t want me

I’m not about to sit around

Let myself go…

Hands touch, eyes meet

Sudden silence, sudden heat

Hearts leap in a giddy whirl

He could be that boy

But I’m not that girl.

Don’t dream too far

Don’t lose sight of who you are

Don’t remember that rush of joy

He could be that boy

I’m not that girl

Ev’ry so often we long to steal

To the land of what-might-have-been

But that doesn’t soften the ache we feel

When reality sets back in

Blithe smile, lithe limb

She who’s winsome, she wins him

Gold hair with gentle curl

That’s the girl he chose

And heaven knows I’m not that girl…

Don’t wish, don’t start

Wishing only wounds the heart

I wasn’t born for the rose and pearl

There’s a girl I know

He loves her so

I’m not that girl…

*From "Wicked" the musical.

I can carry my things without any help.

I can eat by myself.

I can go malling without companion.

I can walk alone.

I can do everything without depending on anyone.

I can manage.

That’s how you know me.  A tough girl.

But did you ever know the other side of me?

I’m tough but I get tired.

I’m tough but I get wounded.

I’m tough but I get weak.

I’m tough but I stumble.

I’m tough but I fall.

When will we find true love?

When can we say he’s the right one?

Will the right one come?

When will we feel the magic love brings?

Will we ever feel it?

When can we utter the words that were just there… waiting to be spoken?

Will we ever have the chance to say this?

Will this questions be left unanswered?

Maybe yes, if that someone will not have the courage to tell it to you straight to your face what he really feels about you.

But then, maybe not, if he can admit to himself that he wants you, that you complete him inspite and despite of your complexities and inabilities.

Now go ahead, do what you think will complete you. Don’t waste your precious time wondering what could’ve happen.

"Fate is more of building bridges of chances for someone you love"

Hi friends! To tell you honestly,I don’t know what’s the use of this blog…but later on my bestfriend wrote something that made me realize it’s worth.She used this to write her thoughts about a whole lot of things.So I realized, why not my thoughts…:) here it goes:

I have been living my life alone rather-independently (lets just put it this way–a single woman:) But my family and friends were always there to give support.

Until someone came into my life…It was far from what I expected (because the day I knew that he liked me was after so-so years:) Nevertheless, I welcomed him in my life.We started the usual getting-to-know thing but most of our conversations were thru text. We see each other once in a while (actually only thrice) but I was so critical about everything…the clothes he wear,the way he talks,etc…but my friends scolded me about this.I followed their advice (not to be critical) and instead, I looked at the "good side" of him.I learn to appreciate the things he does but I got confused of what he texts me and how he acts when were together.Maybe he was just a shy person that’s why he can’t express it in his actions.That made me think that maybe i’m not the girl that he needs. I didn’t expect more of him because I might get frustrated when things didn’t seem to go beyond my expectations.I know that he likes me and he wants to know me better. But do I deserve that kind of treatment?I’m beginning to like him a bit but after what he had shown me, i don’t know if I still want to continue or not. I know that there are people who are not as expressive as the others, but I don’t feel i’m special when i’m with him. the treatment is plain "friendship" maybe because he thinks that i’m conservative so he acts within limits. But the thing is,if you like me,then show it.I don’t want this kind of situation where you don’t know where you stand and how you  will act accordingly.

Maybe I need to take time to think things over,explore a new world, pamper myself and be happy.

Maybe now it will be plain "friendship"…maybe we’ll realize each others worth…maybe yes…maybe not.

But still i’m thankful for the memories we’ve shared…short as it was…it is still special.

"Fate is more of building bridges of chances for someone you love."

This is my hearts voice…my thoughts.